When I returned to work after Isaac was born, my husband and I created a chore chart—only it wasn’t for our toddler son, it was for us. It really affected my self esteem. I’m tired, my kids are tired. I really hate being a single mom. I think it’s a fair judgement to say you don’t dislike him or being a mum, but you hate the lifestyle you have unknowingly fallen into as a causality from being a mother. She has been married to her husband … Jelise is an educator, writer, and speaker. I felt unequipped, unqualified and constantly distracted. I hate my ex for not taking his responsiblity more seriously. It was my identity for 2 years but at this point I wanted to throw in the towel. Perhaps, if possible, see about doing a … I felt like my ex was so much work that the kids suffered. I wouldn't feel guilty for ignoring the PTO or volunteer emails from their school because I don't want to help. Sometimes motherhood is such a wonderful and sweet thing, other times I want to run away from it. But now, almost 3 years later, I absolutely love being a mom. SHARE. Posts about how it’s the hardest job in the world, that it’s thankless, that it’s exhausting, etc. Photo: iStockphoto. I didn’t feel I was good enough, to be honest. I read posts all the time – on this site as well as others – about how tough motherhood is. She is author of the book "Forgiven and Restored" and founder of the Renew and Restore Women's Retreat. By Jennifer Pinarski March 3, 2015. I hate it and I feel like I’m the only one. But the two roles she is most passionate about are those of wife and mother. I don’t want to yell at my 3 year old. Read on to hear why else they confess to hating being step parents. I just really hate being a mum. I'd rather work, write or teach so when I do get my kids at the end of the day, I feel like I've accomplished something important and I don't "hate being a mom" when I'm inundated with backpacks, boo-boos, smelly shoes filled with sand, and a to-do list that never seems to end. I absolutley hate being a mum, hate the responsiblilty, hate whos its turned me into. I Don’t Like Being A Mother. I dont manage the school run very well, always late or they dont go in at all. My depression reared its ugly head after the birth of my son (now 5) and has slowly got worse. In all honesty I didn’t enjoy being a stay at home mom anymore- but I was too scared and too ashamed to admit that. I read articles and posts all day about being a working mom and how it gets better and socialization with adults and good influence on the kids bla bla but it’s not getting better and LO is 11 months old. I hate being an angry Mom. I just wished I had him with somebody else. I can't give him up for adoption....I love him too much. Someone who could have been a man and been responsible. They might find themselves on the receiving end of their step kid’s backtalk and disrespect, while their “real” mom or dad get all the love and affection. As it is. Stay-at-home mom: I hate being a housewife. But, at the same time I'm angry that my life has come to this. I believed and trusted my ex. by Anonymous. Jennifer Pinarski mulls over her decision to become a stay-at-home mom. I knew deep down, I just needed something more. That made me hate being a parent. But, I do love my son. It’s tricky, but you need to find a way to find a medium between your “old life” and your life as a mother. I didn’t feel like I could balance and put the time in the girls needed. I’m typing this as tears run down my face. I didn’t realize how strongly I’d feel like this. I was a stay at home mom. 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